Too often, those who engage in more subversive, at least in terms of “traditional” American culture, activities, including prostitution, drug use, kink, polyamory, and barebacking, are presupposed by society as being bad Americans.
Community organizations have for years conflated being a “good gay citizen” with less risky, and heteronormative, sexual behaviors. For example, right now, social conservatives within the gay community are cheering on the slow march toward gay marriage equa