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Oct31

Traveling man

Friday, 31 October 2014 Written by // Guest Authors - Revolving Door Categories // Aging, International , Living with HIV, Revolving Door, Guest Authors

From POZ magazine a 90 year-old New Yorker says: "There are people who have survived longer than I have in number of years, but I think that I’m probably the oldest guy alive with the virus”

 Traveling man

This is an excerpt of an article by Casey Halter that first appeared in POZ magazine here.  

On July 29, 2014, after living more than two decades with HIV, Nello Carlini celebrated his 90th birthday. “There are people who have survived longer than I have in number of years, but I think that I’m probably the oldest guy alive with the virus,” he says. 

Born in Italy in 1924, Carlini immigrated to western New York with his family when he was 3 years old. In high school, after years of “cruising” for men in Niagara Falls, he decided to become a priest to avoid the pressure of having to get married to a woman. But after he attended a seminary for a few years, it was decided that he was not “priestly material.” Carlini’s penchant for love also got him thrown out of the Army in 1961. 

Throughout his life, he has taken up residence all over the world: in Guam, Turkey, North Africa and through-out Europe. He has traveled in Vietnam, Tibet, China, Mexico and across the United States, supporting his journeys by teaching English, drama, speech, French, Latin and Italian to an array of international students. 

Carlini also has played a big part in the San Francisco gay community for decades. He acted at Theatre Rhinoceros, the city’s LGBT theater company, and is the former president of Golden Gate Performing Arts. 

Carlini was in Italy when he found out in 1995 that he had HIV. He was 71, although he expects he got the virus several years earlier. His nephew, a doctor, made the diagnosis but kept his status a secret so Carlini wouldn’t have to register it with the Italian government and be subjected to its discriminatory laws. 

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