Unsure about that online date? A new service can check in and make sure you're OK afterwards

Published 21, Mar, 2018
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The service is a response to the ongoing Bruce McArthur investigation, creators say

Unsure about that online date? A new service can check in and make sure you're OK afterwards

Haran Vijayanathan says the program will be useful 'whether it’s a hookup or a date or somebody who you’re meeting for the first time.' (Nick Boisvert/CBC)

A Toronto-based community health organization has launched a new service that can confirm someone's whereabouts and well-being after a date with a stranger. The creators of the Alliance for South Asian AIDS Prevention's (ASAAP) SAFE program say it will be particularly useful to LGBT people from marginalized communities.

"When we say, 'Tell someone before you go out,' not every culture is open to people going on dates," said Haran Vijayanathan, executive director ASAAP. "That spans different races, different countries and communities."

Vijayanathan says the program was created in response to the ongoing investigation into Bruce McArthur, who has now been charged with the murders of six men. Police have said McArthur was active on a variety of online dating apps.

"People are saddened that we have to go down this route for safety, and it shouldn't be an issue, but they're grateful that we're actually giving options to people," he said.

How it works

Users will be asked to send an email to the service including their name, contact information and location of their meeting, along with any other details they feel comfortable sharing. If users do not follow up to confirm their safety within 72 hours, ASAAP will then relay that information to police, possibly resulting in a missing person investigation.

ASAAP will then "not just report but actually follow up with the police and ensure that proper procedures are being followed to ensure that these people are found," Vijayanathan said. "It's not going to be a passive program," he added.

While the service was developed by an organization that traditionally serves the South Asian LGBT community, Vijayanathan says SAFE will be open to anyone who feels uncertain about their safety, regardless of their sexual orientation or ethnicity.

"There is somebody that's listening and there's somebody you can talk to that's not going to judge you for it," he said.

To read the complete article by Nick Boisvert, visit CBC News, here.

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